The Way You Loved Me This Week Notepad

Help Your Spouse See How Their Love Reaches Your Heart

You know your spouse loves you. But do they know how their love reaches you? Do they see which moments made you feel cherished, noticed, and valued? Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do for your marriage is show your spouse exactly how their love lands on your heart.

The Way You Loved Me This Week Notepad is your simple, beautiful tool for celebrating the specific ways your spouse made you feel loved—building gratitude, deepening connection, and encouraging more of what's working in your marriage.

What Makes This Notepad Special

Designed to Celebrate Love in Action

Dimensions: Compact 5.5" x 6" size—perfectly portable for keeping on your nightstand, tucking in your planner, or leaving on your spouse's pillow. Small enough to feel approachable, spacious enough for meaningful reflection.

Paper Quality: High-quality paper that’s smooth and easy to write on. No bleed-through, no smudging, just smooth, quality paper that makes priority-setting feel like a sacred practice.

Page Count: 50 tear-off sheets for 50 weeks of recognizing how your spouse loves you well. That's nearly a full year of building gratitude and encouraging your spouse.

A Framework for Celebrating Love

The layout is beautifully simple and intentionally focused:

The Ways I Felt Loved This Week...

Four generous dashed-border boxes provide space for you to write or draw the specific moments, actions, or words that made you feel loved. You can write sentences, jot quick notes, sketch little illustrations, or even paste in photos or mementos. The boxes create structure without being restrictive.

This Week, I Felt Most Loved When...

A single line at the bottom invites you to identify the one moment that stood out most—the action or word that touched your heart deepest. This helps you recognize patterns in how your spouse loves you best and gives them clear feedback about what matters most to you.

How to Use This Notepad

For Weekly Gratitude Practice:
Each week, take a few minutes to reflect on the ways your spouse showed love. Fill in the four boxes with specific moments, then identify the one that meant the most. This trains your heart to notice love instead of taking it for granted.

For Encouraging Your Spouse:
Tear out your completed page and give it to your spouse. Let them see exactly how their actions, words, and efforts made you feel loved. This is powerful encouragement that motivates them to keep loving you well.

For Marriage Check-Ins:
Use this notepad during weekly marriage conversations. Share what you wrote, celebrate what's working, and help your spouse understand your love language better.

For Building Your Love Language Awareness:
Over time, you'll notice patterns. Maybe you consistently feel most loved when your spouse serves you, speaks words of affirmation, or gives you physical affection. This helps both of you understand how love best reaches your heart.

For Combating Negativity Bias:
When you're frustrated with your spouse, this notepad reminds you of all the ways they've loved you well. It shifts your focus from what's wrong to what's right.

For Anniversary or Birthday Gifts:
Collect your completed pages over several months and compile them into a booklet or album. Give it to your spouse as a tangible record of how they've loved you throughout the year.

For Long-Distance Marriages:
If you're separated by deployment, work travel, or other circumstances, use this notepad to recognize the ways your spouse loves you from afar—texts, calls, thoughtful gestures, prayers.

Tuck It Anywhere:
Keep it on your nightstand for bedtime reflection. Store it in your kitchen for morning gratitude. Leave it on your spouse's pillow with a completed page. The portable size fits seamlessly into your marriage rhythm.

Why You Need This

You don't have to let another week go by without recognizing how your spouse loves you. You don't have to wonder if your spouse knows their efforts matter.

With this notepad, you'll have:
✅ A simple tool for building gratitude in your marriage
✅ A way to show your spouse exactly how their love reaches you
✅ A record of the moments that mattered most
✅ A practice that trains you to notice love instead of taking it for granted
✅ Tangible encouragement that motivates your spouse to keep loving well

This is a tool for spouses who want to build gratitude instead of taking each other for granted. For those who know that what you focus on grows. For couples who believe that celebrating love creates more love.

Perfect For

✅ Wives or husbands who want to encourage their spouse by showing them how their love matters
✅ Couples working to rebuild connection after a difficult season
✅ Those who struggle with negativity bias and need to train their hearts toward gratitude
✅ Spouses who want to understand their love language better and help their partner understand it too
✅ Anyone who wants to create a tangible record of how they've been loved throughout their marriage
✅ Gift-givers looking for a meaningful, marriage-building gift for weddings, anniversaries, or Valentine's Day

Your spouse is loving you in ways you might not even notice. The small gestures. The daily sacrifices. The thoughtful words. The consistent presence.

The Way You Loved Me This Week Notepad gives you the space, the structure, and the invitation to notice, celebrate, and share how your spouse's love reaches your heart.

One week at a time.
One moment at a time.
One expression of gratitude at a time.

Because when you celebrate the love you receive, you create more of it.

🌿 Want a Customizable Canva Template Instead?

If you live outside the US or want to personalize the design, you can purchase the editable Canva template version of this notepad.

With the digital version, you can:

• Edit text, colors, and layout

• Print at home or through your local print shop

• Create multiple customized versions

👉 Get the customizable Canva template here:

https://pensight.com/x/thefocusedhomemaker/the-way-you-loved-me