Peace Pact Reconciliation Notepad
$14.99
Turn Sibling Conflict Into Connection
The yelling starts again. One child feels wronged. The other feels misunderstood. You're exhausted from refereeing the same arguments over and over.
You want your children to learn conflict resolution, not just forced apologies. You want them to understand their feelings, take responsibility, and make peace, not just stop fighting.
The Peace Pact Notepad is your Christ-centered tool for teaching your children how to resolve conflict biblically—with honesty, humility, and genuine reconciliation.
What Makes This Notepad Special
Designed for Teaching Biblical Conflict Resolution
Dimensions: Compact 5.5" x 6" size—perfectly sized for little hands and easy to store in a kitchen drawer, on the fridge, or in a family conflict resolution basket. Small enough to feel manageable for children, spacious enough for meaningful reflection.
Paper Quality: High-quality paper that’s smooth and easy to write on. No bleed-through, no smudging, just smooth, quality paper that makes priority-setting feel like a sacred practice.
Page Count: 50 tear-off sheets for 50 opportunities to practice peacemaking. That's 50 chances for your children to learn how to resolve conflict God's way.
A Framework Rooted in Scripture
"Bear with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgive each other; as the Lord has forgiven you." – Colossians 3:13
Your children aren't just learning to "get along." They're learning to forgive as Christ forgave them. The layout guides children through five essential steps of biblical conflict resolution:
1. What Happened
This section helps children identify the actual issue without blame or exaggeration. They learn to state facts rather than accusations.
2. How I Felt
Six emotion faces help children identify and name their feelings. This teaches emotional literacy, which is a critical skill for healthy relationships.
3. What I'm Sorry For
A blank line invites children to take ownership of their part in the conflict. This moves them beyond "I'm sorry you're mad" to genuine repentance for their own actions.
4. What I Need
There are checkboxes that help children articulate their needs and teach them to express these needs clearly instead of reacting with aggression or withdrawal.
5. Our Peace Plan
This final section focuses on restoration and moving forward together. This encourages children to rebuild connection after conflict, not just separate and avoid each other.
How to Use This Notepad
For Sibling Conflict Resolution:
When siblings fight, separate them briefly to calm down, then bring them together with the Peace Pact. Each child fills out their own sheet, then they share with each other and work toward reconciliation.
For Teaching Emotional Literacy:
Use the emotion faces to help children identify and name their feelings. Over time, they'll learn to recognize emotions before they escalate into conflict.
For Practicing Apologies:
The "What I'm Sorry For" section teaches children to give specific, genuine apologies rather than forced "I'm sorry" statements.
For Parent-Child Conflict:
This tool isn't just for siblings. Use it when you've had a conflict with your child, modeling humility and genuine reconciliation.
For Tracking Growth:
Keep completed sheets in a folder. Over time, you'll see patterns—recurring triggers, growth in emotional regulation, and progress in conflict resolution skills.
For Family Meetings:
Review completed Peace Pacts during weekly family meetings. Celebrate growth, identify patterns, and pray together for continued peacemaking.
For Teaching Forgiveness:
The Colossians 3:13 verse at the bottom provides a natural opportunity to talk about how Christ forgives us and how we're called to forgive others.
Tuck It Anywhere:
Keep it in a kitchen drawer for quick access. Post it on the fridge as a visual reminder. Store it in a "peace basket" with crayons and a timer. The portable size fits seamlessly into your conflict resolution routine.
Why You Need This
You don't have to keep refereeing the same fights over and over. You don't have to settle for forced apologies that don't change behavior.
With this notepad, you'll have:
✅ A biblical framework for teaching conflict resolution
✅ A tool that helps children identify feelings and take responsibility
✅ A process that moves beyond punishment to genuine reconciliation
✅ A record of your children's growth in peacemaking
✅ A visual reminder that making peace is valued in your home
This is a tool for parents who want to teach their children biblical conflict resolution. For families who believe that peacemaking is a skill worth practicing. For those who know that how children handle conflict today shapes how they'll handle relationships for a lifetime.
Perfect For
✅ Families with multiple children who need a consistent conflict resolution process
✅ Parents teaching emotional literacy and healthy communication
✅ Those tired of forced apologies that don't lead to real change
✅ Families who want to practice biblical peacemaking in everyday conflicts
✅ Homeschool families incorporating character training into their curriculum
✅ Gift-givers looking for a meaningful, practical tool for families with young children
Your children won't naturally know how to resolve conflict. They need to be taught patiently, consistently, and biblically.
The Peace Pact Notepad gives you the framework, the structure, and the scriptural foundation to teach your children how to make peace God's way.
One conflict at a time.
One honest conversation at a time.
One act of forgiveness at a time.
Because children who learn to make peace today become adults who build healthy relationships tomorrow.
🌿 Want a Customizable Canva Template Instead?
If you live outside the US or want to personalize the design, you can purchase the editable Canva template version of this notepad.
With the digital version, you can:
Edit text, colors, and layout
Print at home or through your local print shop
Create multiple customized versions
