Love Your Wife Like Christ Notepad
$14.99
You want to love your wife well. You know Ephesians 5:25 calls you to love her as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, intentionally, consistently. But in the daily grind of work, responsibilities, and distractions, it's easy to forget what that actually looks like.
What if you had a simple tool that helped you translate biblical love into daily action?
The Love Her Like Christ Notepad is your practical guide for loving your wife the way Christ calls you to—through service, encouragement, and prayer.
What Makes This Notepad Special
Designed for Husbands Who Want to Lead With Love
Dimensions: Compact 5.5" x 6" size—perfectly portable for keeping on your nightstand, tucking in your work bag, or storing in your desk drawer. Small enough to feel manageable in your busy schedule, spacious enough for meaningful planning.
Paper Quality: High-quality paper that’s smooth and easy to write on. No bleed-through, no smudging, just smooth, quality paper that makes priority-setting feel like a sacred practice.
Page Count: 50 tear-off sheets for 50 days of intentional love. That's nearly two months of building habits that will transform your marriage.
A Framework Rooted in Ephesians 5:25
The layout guides you through three essential expressions of Christlike love:
1. Serve Her In:
Christ demonstrated His love through service—washing feet, meeting needs, sacrificing comfort. This section helps you identify specific, practical ways to serve your wife today.
Maybe she needs help with household tasks. Maybe she needs you to take the kids so she can rest. Maybe she needs you to handle something that's been weighing on her. This isn't about grand gestures. It's about daily, sacrificial service that lightens her load.
2. Encourage Her About:
Christ spoke life, truth, and affirmation. This section helps you identify what your wife needs to hear today.
Maybe she needs encouragement about her mothering. Maybe she needs affirmation about her character. Maybe she needs to hear that you notice her efforts, her strengths, her beauty. This trains you to speak words that build up rather than tear down.
3. Pray Intentionally for Her:
Christ intercedes for His bride. This section helps you pray specifically for your wife's heart, needs, and spiritual growth.
Maybe she's struggling with anxiety and needs peace. Maybe she's facing a difficult decision and needs wisdom. Maybe she's weary and needs strength. This keeps your marriage anchored in prayer, not just in your own efforts.
How to Use This Notepad
For Daily Marriage Leadership:
Each morning, fill out a page. Identify one way you'll serve your wife, one thing you'll encourage her about, and one specific prayer for her. This transforms vague intentions into concrete action.
For Building New Habits:
Use this notepad to establish patterns of sacrificial love. Over time, serving, encouraging, and praying for your wife will become second nature.
For Accountability:
Share your progress with a mentor, accountability partner, or men's group. Vulnerability about your growth areas invites wisdom and encouragement.
For Tracking Growth:
Keep completed pages as a record of how you're growing in loving your wife. Look back and see patterns—areas where you've improved and areas that still need attention.
For Spiritual Discipline:
Using this notepad is an act of obedience to Ephesians 5:25. You're submitting your marriage to Christ's lordship and following His example of sacrificial love.
For Rebuilding After Conflict:
If your marriage is in a difficult season, this tool helps you take consistent, intentional steps toward restoration through service, encouragement, and prayer.
For Celebrating Progress:
Share completed pages with your wife occasionally. Let her see that you're being intentional about loving her well. This builds trust and connection.
Tuck It Anywhere:
Keep it on your nightstand for morning planning. Store it in your work bag for lunch break reflection. Leave it on your desk as a visual reminder. The portable size fits seamlessly into your daily routine.
Why You Need This
You don't have to wonder if you're loving your wife well. You don't have to rely on vague good intentions.
With this notepad, you'll have:
✅ A biblical framework for Christlike love in marriage
✅ Daily accountability for serving, encouraging, and praying for your wife
✅ A tool that moves you from intention to action
✅ A record of your growth as a husband
✅ Practical prompts that make Ephesians 5:25 tangible
This is a tool for husbands who want to lead like Christ. For men who know their wives deserve more than leftovers. For those who believe that loving well requires daily, intentional effort.
Perfect For
✅ Husbands who want to love their wives better but need practical guidance
✅ Men who struggle with consistency and need daily accountability
✅ Couples working through challenges who need intentional, consistent effort
✅ Newlyweds establishing patterns of Christlike love from the start
✅ Men in accountability groups who want a tool for growth
✅ Gift-givers looking for a meaningful, faith-centered gift for weddings, anniversaries, or men's ministry
Your wife deserves to be loved like Christ loves the church. Not just on special occasions. Not just when it's convenient. Every single day.
The Love Her Like Christ Notepad gives you the framework, the accountability, and the biblical foundation to love your wife sacrificially, intentionally, and consistently.
One act of service at a time.
One word of encouragement at a time.
One prayer at a time.
Because husbands who love like Christ build marriages that reflect the gospel.
🌿 Want a Customizable Canva Template Instead?
If you live outside the US or want to personalize the design, you can purchase the editable Canva template version of this notepad.
With the digital version, you can:
Edit text, colors, and layout
Print at home or through your local print shop
Create multiple customized versions
👉 Get the customizable Canva template here:
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